Raymond E. Clary JR
September 27, 1966 - August 17, 2021
Jay & Robin Lee
M. Kevin Riley
Betty Brown
Krista Wilson
Brigette Hayes
Chuck Knee
April Sikes
Michelle John
Cesar Gonzalez
Nick Chamnarnsripetch
Ramona Burton
Toni Barkley
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Kilpatrick Funeral Homes - Monroe
1200 Lamy Lane
Monroe, LA 71201
318-323-9611 | Map
Friday 8/20, 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Rosary will be held at 7:00 P.M.

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Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic Church
Monroe, LA 71201
318-322-5168 | Map
Saturday 8/21, 1:00 pm
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Kilpatrick's Serenity Gardens
8729 Cypress Street
West Monroe, LA 71291
318-397-3766 | Map
Saturday 8/21
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A funeral mass celebrating the life for Raymond Earl Clary, Jr. will be held at 1:00 P.M. on Saturday, August 21, 2021 at Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Monroe. Interment will follow at Kilpatrick’s Serenity Gardens in West Monroe. Services are under the direction and care of Kilpatrick Funeral Homes of Monroe. Raymond…

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Jay & Robin Lee left a message on September 17, 2021:
Our hearts go out to you and Alex, Claire ❣️🙏
Kelly Day left a message on August 31, 2021:
I am so, so very sorry to hear of Ray's passing this morning. Ray came by my home in Ruston a few times to give me estimates for a pool and spoke highly of his family and how much he loved all of you. He sent me his writings to look over for feedback. Very talented writer. My love, prayers, and condolences to your family. He was truly a bright light.
M. Kevin Riley left a message on August 28, 2021:
I am saddened to hear of Raymond's passing. I haven't seen him in many years, but we were neighbors in our childhood and played together often. The Clary family(ies) are in my prayers.
Michael Mercer left a message on August 26, 2021:
Hello, I was so sorry to hear about Ray's passing. He installed a pool for us 5 years ago and in the few short weeks that whole process took, we came to think of Ray as a friend. He was always smiling and never failed to make us laugh with his quit wit and good sense of humor. We pray that God will bless your family during this time and fill you with joy and healing. Sincerely, Michael & Jan Mercer
Steve and Shan Morgan left a message on August 24, 2021:
We just learned of Ray's passing. Please know that we are truly sorry for your loss. Ray was such a great guy to work with when he installed our pool. Prayers for you and your family. Steve and Shan Morgan Magnolia, AR
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Gary Miers left a message on August 23, 2021:
My sincere condolences to family and friends. God bless.
Susie Hoot McCoy left a message on August 23, 2021:
I was heartbroken to hear the news of Raymond's passing. He and I went to high school together and I have memories of his smile and kindness. He was one of those people who was loved by all. Please accept my condolences.
Nancy Williams left a message on August 23, 2021:
I am so sorry to here of your loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Anne Roark left a message on August 22, 2021:
Hoss and Babs….our love to you & your family, prayers for peace. Kenneth and Anne Roark
Anne Roark left a message on August 22, 2021:
Hoss and Babs….our love to you & your family, prayers for peace. Kenneth and Anne Roark
Paul and Barbara Butler left a message on August 21, 2021:
So very sorry for your loss of Raymond. Alex remember the good memories that you and your Dad shared.
Helen Lock left a message on August 21, 2021:
I met Ray when he installed my pool, and it was immediately clear that he was one of the most ethical businessmen I ever dealt with, and just such a darn nice guy. He will be greatly missed. Condolences to his entire family.
Betty Brown left a message on August 21, 2021:
In memory of Raymond E. Clary JR, Betty Brown lit a candle
Tim & Maureen Proctor left a message on August 21, 2021:
We were great friends with Ray, Claire, and Alex during their short few years in Gulf Breeze Florida. We met them at a park when Alex and our Allison were youngsters. We loved them and spent a lot of time together then. It was a significant time in our lives. Ray took me fishing a few times and I caught my first King Mackeral on his boat. When we visited them in Cape Coral, he boldly walked up to a Red Sox baseball player, chatted with him, and brought my son, Bradley, back a Beer Coaster from Mike Lowell :-) Ray was so much fun to be around and we have always adored Claire. I just found out about this last nite as we were taking our youngest back to college, otherwise we would be there today with you all. Claire and Alex we love you. And we loved Ray. Peace and Love, from the Proctors (Tim, Maureen, Allison, Bradley, and Mallory)
Krista Wilson left a message on August 20, 2021:
We all loved Ray! He was a devoted husband and father. Words cannot Express the profound loss, this is, too all of us, that loved him.
Helen Geisler left a message on August 20, 2021:
Dear Babs and Hoss and all the Clary family, Raymond was always such a joy to be around, even as a small child. Jim and I will always be grateful to have shared in Raymond’s life and to have witnessed his loving, kind and effervescent personality. Whenever we hear his name, a smile comes to our faces. Raymond’s willingness to include Bogey in your family has been a tremendous gift and I am so thankful for it, for Raymond and for you all. We are thinking of you and keeping you close to our hearts. Jim and Helen Nelson Geisler
Brigette Hayes left a message on August 20, 2021:
In memory of Raymond E. Clary JR, Brigette Hayes lit a candle
Chuck Knee left a message on August 20, 2021:
I would like to express our condolences on your great loss.
Amy Hutton Walker left a message on August 20, 2021:
Danny, Melinda and I as so sadden to hear about Raymond. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers. We also pray for comfort through this unbelievably tough time. Love, Danny Hutton, Melinda Hutton Melton, and Amy Hutton Walker
ONEIDA WOODS AND OMEGA GRANT left a message on August 20, 2021:
SO SORRY TO HEAR THIS NEWS OF RAYMOND, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. LOVE ONEIDA AND OMEGA
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Robert and Samantha Jordan left a message on August 20, 2021:
We pray that God will give you all peace and strength during these tough times. Please take comfort in the fact Ray was the kindest person we have ever encountered, and we are almost sure that many others would say the same. Indeed the world has lost an incredible life whose presence will surely be missed. With Love, The Jordan Family
Ron and Sue Avery left a message on August 20, 2021:
We can't imagine the pain you're all feeling, and we know that no words can assuage that. We do believe, though, that ultimately that the pain will lessen, and you'll be able to rejoice in the precious son and loving husband father Raymond was. You'll find joy in remembering how he brightened lives all around him, especially yours, and you'll realize that right now there's a party going on in Heaven with Raymond Clary leading the conga line.
Darrell Boyd left a message on August 20, 2021:
I want to convey my deepest sympathy to the Clary family. Ray was one of a nicest and most considerate people that I have ever met. He was always willing to do whatever he could to address any needs or concerns we had around the office. He was a generous and compassionate person that always greeted you with an infectious smile. Ray will be greatly missed.
Beth Craft left a message on August 20, 2021:
You and your family are in my prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss!!!
David Thiels left a message on August 20, 2021:
Babs and Raymond, Claire and Alex, and all of Ray's family, my deepest condolences. Please know that all of you have been in my prayers for comforting directly by the Holy Spirit and indirectly through the prayers and other outreach of all those with whom God has intertwined your lives. We included prayer intentions for all of you at our MAC's Men's Faith-sharing Meeting yesterday morning and last evening at our Jesus the Good Shepherd Faith-sharing Meeting. Ray's community, your community, has been, is and will be praying for you to be immersed in an outpouring of His unsurpassed peace in the midst of your deep sorrow and grief.
Janice McDougal left a message on August 20, 2021:
Thinking of you, wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow, comfort in the midst of pain. The loss of Ray is felt by many. May the Grace of God be with you and your family today and always.
Stacy Lynch left a message on August 20, 2021:
Ray was such a wonderful and unique soul. He made such a difference in our lives, and he will be truly missed.
April Sikes left a message on August 20, 2021:
Claire my hearts breaks for you. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Michelle John left a message on August 20, 2021:
I will always know Raymond by his smile and laughter. Fond memories of our youth. My thoughts and prayers center on his beautiful spirit, his family and all those who love him.
Cesar Gonzalez left a message on August 19, 2021:
May he Rest In Peace. 💔
Nick Chamnarnsripetch left a message on August 19, 2021:
I will miss you Ray Ray.
Ramona Burton left a message on August 19, 2021:
Just shocked still, we are praying for All of you!!! The Burton family Jean, Sharon, Ramona and Neil...
Toni Barkley left a message on August 19, 2021:
My deepest sympathies are with the Clary Family. I know you’re grief is heavy. May God wrap his arms around all of Ray’s loved one’s. I know God’s arms welcomed this wonderful child home. ❤️
Toni Barkley left a message on August 19, 2021:
In memory of Raymond E. Clary JR, Toni Barkley lit a candle
Elvis and Joy Surles left a message on August 19, 2021:
We are heartbroken for all of you!!! We have lived this and know the pain you are going through. We pray for each one of you for God’s peace that surpasses all understanding to guard your heats and mind. 🙏🙏🙏
Patsi, Moe, Danyah & Liana Al-Natour left a message on August 19, 2021:
Our dearest wishes and condolences to the whole of the family. You are all in our prayers and thoughts. RIP Raymond. 😢❤️
Shivaran Scott left a message on August 19, 2021:
I had the chance to meet this sweet man through ACTS. He was always so pleasant and giving. Rest in peace my BIC!
Christy Neubauer Brown left a message on August 19, 2021:
Raymond and I were friends growing up. I am heartbroken. He was always such a fun person to be around. I am praying for the family and know he will be missed by many.
Billie Cleveland left a message on August 19, 2021:
So very sorry for your loss, Claire, Alex and family. Prayers for y'all... He will be missed tremendously! Much love to y'all. ❤❤
Tommie Church left a message on August 19, 2021:
In memory of Raymond E. Clary JR, Tommie Church lit a candle
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Scott Prewitt left a message on August 19, 2021:
Raymond and I grew up together. His infectious smile and laughter would keep you smiling all day. He was a wonderful person and will be missed dearly. I love ya buddy!!!
Crystal Gaines left a message on August 19, 2021:
My heart and prayers go out to the family of Ray Clary. My heart was so heavy when I found out about his passing. He was such a "RAY" of sunshine. :) He ALWAYS had a smile on his face, goodies to pass out, a story to tell, and ALWAYS made me laugh. May peace abide with you all and may you find strength in our Lord and savior.
Kilpatrick Funeral Homes left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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