Funeral services for Jason Benjamin Hayes, 40, of Monroe, LA will be held at 10:00 AM, Thursday, December 13, 2007 at First United Methodist Church, Monroe, LA with Rev. Larry Stafford officiating. Interment will follow in Pines Memorial Gardens, Ruston, LA under the direction of Kilpatrick Funeral Home.Jason Hayes was born on May 9, 1967Continue Reading
Tanya Graham Bickham
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I am so sorry to hear about Jason. I have so many wonderful memories of our friendship during our days at Cedar Creek. He was a good friend and always so fun to be with. Please know you will be in my prayers.
J. Scott Bond
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Thank you, Jason, for all the great times during our college years.  You will be greatly missed.  My condolences to the Hayes family.
Gerald & Shirley Cobb
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Dear Sherry and Ron,     Gerald and I are so sad to hear of your loss.  Please know that we are thinking of you during these terribletimes.  It is difficult to find the words to help ease your pain because there is none.  Just know that you have each other and also many friends out there that care about you.  
Christopher Moore
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I would like to send my condolences to all of the family over the loss of Jason.  I was a childhood friend of his and I only have fond memories of wonderful childhood with great friends in a carefree time.  Jason was a good friend and even though we lost touch after he left Shreveport I will always remember the times we had.  I often have thought of Jason throughout my path to adulthood, sometimes just wondering which path he took.  I am sure he turned into a great adult as well that will be missed by all.
Merrilee Leatherman
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Sherry,I was so sorry to read about Jason's death.  I know that losing a child is so difficult at any time, but it is especially hard at this time of the year.  When my 23-year-old daughter, Lori Leigh, and her fiance, Chris Sainz, died in an automobile accident Dec. 20, 1996 in Madrid, it was the most horrible day of my life.  Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that I am always available to share thoughts or just listen if you want to talk.Sincerely,Merrilee Leatherman
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Christi & Greg Brown
left a message on December 10, 2007:
We are very sorry for your loss of Jason.  Your family will be remembered in our prayers.  Christi Brown
Angie Miller
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I am so very sorry to hear about your lost. I pray that God will give you all peace and help you all in this time of need. Jessica, I am sorry girl! I have been thinking about you and if you need anything, please call me. I am keeping you,your kids, his kids, his parents& the rest of his family in my prayers. In time you learn to live with a lost, but you never get over it. I promise you will make it through this, even when you think you can't. I have been here and I know. God will never leave you nor will he forsake you. Know that you can always turn to God and God loves you all.  
Dickie Crawford
left a message on December 10, 2007:
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Jason's family during this difficult time.Jason was a very good friend to me at Cedar Creek and he will be missed.
Evans Wroten
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Jason-What a great privilege to know you and call you a brother and friend.  There are so many great memories and stories with you.  You will be missed by many of us near and far.  My deepest condolences to your family during this difficult time.  My prayers will be with all of you.~Evans
Kathy Joslyn Bryant
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Sherry and Heather  I was so sad to read about Jason.  I haven't seen Jason since he was that big brown eyed little boy that use to tell me how he was going to "karate my body" when I would babysit him next door on Shadywood Lane.  I think of ya'll often and will always remember that time as a special part of my teenage years and the fun we shared.  Both of you will be in my prayers and my thoughts as always.  Love you both.
Debra Mitchell
left a message on December 10, 2007:
In high school Jason was a sweetheart with a big smile and handsome face which I will never forget.  I don't know Jason's sons but I want them to know that their father was full of fun and life and someone I never heard anyone say one even slightly negative thing about.  He was a joy to know with his twinkling eyes and sweet demeanor. He always made me smile. I haven't seen Jason since I left Louisiana when he was a junior in high school in 1984. Nevertheless, he's someone I haven't -- and won't -- forget.
Nick Rule
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I would like to send my condolences to the family and friends of Jason. I spent many days and nights talking with him during our months together at P.A.R.C. and considered him a good friend and a good person. He helped me with my recovery and I am thankful for that. I will always remember throwing the football with him and talking about Matt and the boys. Peace be with you all. Nick Rule
Tom
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I know this is so after the fact now, but I found the obit on Ruston Daily Leaders website today and I can't tell you how much Jason has been on my mind since then.  We were not that close in school but in the 9th grade my first year there he was a good friend and I will always remember his smile and the way he enjoyed life.  I will always remember him as someone who enjoyed life and had fun.  He had a good time and had a great spirit.  I always wanted to be better friends with him but because I decided to drop football we sort of drifted apart.  He was a great guy, I'm happy to have known him and I look forward to seeing him again, because I know he'll be there.  Like our high school song stated - "a friend's a friend forever if the Lord's the Lord of them".Rest
Becky Byrnside McFarland
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I'm incredibly saddened to hear of Jason's passing, having such great memories of him from high school and college.  My heart goes out to his family at this sorrowful time.  
Neighbor
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Dear Jason Benjamin Hayes? Family, I am taking this opportunity to express my condolences in regards to the death of your loved one.  The comfort I experienced from the God of Comfort during a similar time in my family is the promise from the True God at Revelation 21:3-5:   ? ?Look the tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his peoples.  And God himself will be with them.  And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and DEATH will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore? the One seated on the throne said  ?Look I am making all things new.  Also, he says: ?Write, because these words are faithful and true.?As Jesus taught his disciples to pray that God?s ?will be done on earth as it is in heaven.?Rev 21:1, 2 Pet 3:13, Isa 65:17-?For here I am creating new heavens and a new earth the former things Death, ? will not be called to mind.?  The resurrection a re-standing to life hope at John 3:16 clearly spells out how Jehovah God through his Son Christ Jesus will undo the ravages of death forever.  The time is near when the earth will serves God?s purpose as Jesus promised at Matthew 5:5.           ?Blessed are meek, since they will inherit the earth.? Psalms 37:29
Tammy Isgrig Henderson
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I am so sorry to hear about Jason.  He was always a joy to be around in high school and was always a friend to all. I have many fond memories of him. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this time and that Jason will always have a special place in the hearts of those that knew him.
Shelton Caruthers
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I was deeply grieved to hear of Jason?s passing.  I hold you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time of sorrow.
Tracey C, Brooks
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Jason was a very good person and was loved by many, mostly by Jessica. He made me and everyone around him laugh. He will be missed. I love you Jessica!Tracey
Esther Lu Lazarus
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I was so sorry to hear of your loss.  My prayers are with you.Esther Lu
Shawn Arnold aka Rigor
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Jason21 years ago we met as pledge brothers and celebrated our youth together.  It was a wonderful time and I would not have changed a minute of it.  We are brothers by oath and you will live forever in our hearts. BBBBMr. & Mrs McNabb, Jared, Kevin and Josh please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.Sincerely,A. Shawn ArnoldRigor AO 32
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Michelle Green Jimmerson
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I have fond memories of Jason from high school, and I was so sorry to learn of his passing.  I will remember his family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Linda Ewbank
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Sherry and Ron, I am so sorry for your loss.
Kay LaPrarie Oliveaux
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I am so sorry to hear about Jason.  He was good friend to alot of people and I know that he will be truly missed. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Mike Dickinson
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I'm sorry that I won't be able to attend Jason's services, but all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.  
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Tanya Graham Bickham
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I am so sorry to hear about Jason. I have so many wonderful memories of our friendship during our days at Cedar Creek. He was a good friend and always so fun to be with. Please know you will be in my prayers.
J. Scott Bond
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Thank you, Jason, for all the great times during our college years.  You will be greatly missed.  My condolences to the Hayes family.
Gerald & Shirley Cobb
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Dear Sherry and Ron,     Gerald and I are so sad to hear of your loss.  Please know that we are thinking of you during these terribletimes.  It is difficult to find the words to help ease your pain because there is none.  Just know that you have each other and also many friends out there that care about you.  
Christopher Moore
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I would like to send my condolences to all of the family over the loss of Jason.  I was a childhood friend of his and I only have fond memories of wonderful childhood with great friends in a carefree time.  Jason was a good friend and even though we lost touch after he left Shreveport I will always remember the times we had.  I often have thought of Jason throughout my path to adulthood, sometimes just wondering which path he took.  I am sure he turned into a great adult as well that will be missed by all.
Merrilee Leatherman
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Sherry,I was so sorry to read about Jason's death.  I know that losing a child is so difficult at any time, but it is especially hard at this time of the year.  When my 23-year-old daughter, Lori Leigh, and her fiance, Chris Sainz, died in an automobile accident Dec. 20, 1996 in Madrid, it was the most horrible day of my life.  Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that I am always available to share thoughts or just listen if you want to talk.Sincerely,Merrilee Leatherman
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Christi & Greg Brown
left a message on December 10, 2007:
We are very sorry for your loss of Jason.  Your family will be remembered in our prayers.  Christi Brown
Angie Miller
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I am so very sorry to hear about your lost. I pray that God will give you all peace and help you all in this time of need. Jessica, I am sorry girl! I have been thinking about you and if you need anything, please call me. I am keeping you,your kids, his kids, his parents& the rest of his family in my prayers. In time you learn to live with a lost, but you never get over it. I promise you will make it through this, even when you think you can't. I have been here and I know. God will never leave you nor will he forsake you. Know that you can always turn to God and God loves you all.  
Dickie Crawford
left a message on December 10, 2007:
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Jason's family during this difficult time.Jason was a very good friend to me at Cedar Creek and he will be missed.
Evans Wroten
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Jason-What a great privilege to know you and call you a brother and friend.  There are so many great memories and stories with you.  You will be missed by many of us near and far.  My deepest condolences to your family during this difficult time.  My prayers will be with all of you.~Evans
Kathy Joslyn Bryant
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Sherry and Heather  I was so sad to read about Jason.  I haven't seen Jason since he was that big brown eyed little boy that use to tell me how he was going to "karate my body" when I would babysit him next door on Shadywood Lane.  I think of ya'll often and will always remember that time as a special part of my teenage years and the fun we shared.  Both of you will be in my prayers and my thoughts as always.  Love you both.
Debra Mitchell
left a message on December 10, 2007:
In high school Jason was a sweetheart with a big smile and handsome face which I will never forget.  I don't know Jason's sons but I want them to know that their father was full of fun and life and someone I never heard anyone say one even slightly negative thing about.  He was a joy to know with his twinkling eyes and sweet demeanor. He always made me smile. I haven't seen Jason since I left Louisiana when he was a junior in high school in 1984. Nevertheless, he's someone I haven't -- and won't -- forget.
Nick Rule
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I would like to send my condolences to the family and friends of Jason. I spent many days and nights talking with him during our months together at P.A.R.C. and considered him a good friend and a good person. He helped me with my recovery and I am thankful for that. I will always remember throwing the football with him and talking about Matt and the boys. Peace be with you all. Nick Rule
Tom
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I know this is so after the fact now, but I found the obit on Ruston Daily Leaders website today and I can't tell you how much Jason has been on my mind since then.  We were not that close in school but in the 9th grade my first year there he was a good friend and I will always remember his smile and the way he enjoyed life.  I will always remember him as someone who enjoyed life and had fun.  He had a good time and had a great spirit.  I always wanted to be better friends with him but because I decided to drop football we sort of drifted apart.  He was a great guy, I'm happy to have known him and I look forward to seeing him again, because I know he'll be there.  Like our high school song stated - "a friend's a friend forever if the Lord's the Lord of them".Rest
Becky Byrnside McFarland
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I'm incredibly saddened to hear of Jason's passing, having such great memories of him from high school and college.  My heart goes out to his family at this sorrowful time.  
Neighbor
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Dear Jason Benjamin Hayes? Family, I am taking this opportunity to express my condolences in regards to the death of your loved one.  The comfort I experienced from the God of Comfort during a similar time in my family is the promise from the True God at Revelation 21:3-5:   ? ?Look the tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his peoples.  And God himself will be with them.  And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and DEATH will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore? the One seated on the throne said  ?Look I am making all things new.  Also, he says: ?Write, because these words are faithful and true.?As Jesus taught his disciples to pray that God?s ?will be done on earth as it is in heaven.?Rev 21:1, 2 Pet 3:13, Isa 65:17-?For here I am creating new heavens and a new earth the former things Death, ? will not be called to mind.?  The resurrection a re-standing to life hope at John 3:16 clearly spells out how Jehovah God through his Son Christ Jesus will undo the ravages of death forever.  The time is near when the earth will serves God?s purpose as Jesus promised at Matthew 5:5.           ?Blessed are meek, since they will inherit the earth.? Psalms 37:29
Tammy Isgrig Henderson
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I am so sorry to hear about Jason.  He was always a joy to be around in high school and was always a friend to all. I have many fond memories of him. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this time and that Jason will always have a special place in the hearts of those that knew him.
Shelton Caruthers
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I was deeply grieved to hear of Jason?s passing.  I hold you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time of sorrow.
Tracey C, Brooks
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Jason was a very good person and was loved by many, mostly by Jessica. He made me and everyone around him laugh. He will be missed. I love you Jessica!Tracey
Esther Lu Lazarus
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I was so sorry to hear of your loss.  My prayers are with you.Esther Lu
Shawn Arnold aka Rigor
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Jason21 years ago we met as pledge brothers and celebrated our youth together.  It was a wonderful time and I would not have changed a minute of it.  We are brothers by oath and you will live forever in our hearts. BBBBMr. & Mrs McNabb, Jared, Kevin and Josh please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.Sincerely,A. Shawn ArnoldRigor AO 32
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Michelle Green Jimmerson
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I have fond memories of Jason from high school, and I was so sorry to learn of his passing.  I will remember his family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Linda Ewbank
left a message on December 10, 2007:
Sherry and Ron, I am so sorry for your loss.
Kay LaPrarie Oliveaux
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I am so sorry to hear about Jason.  He was good friend to alot of people and I know that he will be truly missed. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Mike Dickinson
left a message on December 10, 2007:
I'm sorry that I won't be able to attend Jason's services, but all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.  
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