Anita Howard Gray, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on February 6, 2025, at the age of 78. A pillar of strength, compassion, and unwavering love, she leaves behind a legacy of devotion and joy that will be forever remembered.

Anita’s greatest joy was her family. She is survived by her devoted husband of 58 years, Will Gray; daughter, Julie Louthain; son, David Gray (Amy); six treasured grandchildren: Alison Louthain (Matthew Hutchinson), Kate Louthain, Emma Louthain, Scott Gray, Anna Gray, and Laura Gray; beloved mother, Harriette Howard; and cherished sister, Nannette Orr (William). Anita is also survived by countless friends and loved ones.

She is preceded in death by her father, Alfred Howard.

As a proud Navy wife, Anita stood by her husband Will through years of service, embodying resilience and grace. Her steadfast devotion made her the heart and rock of her family. She built a successful career as a dedicated real estate agent, helping countless families find their forever homes.

Anita was an active member of Alabama Presbyterian Church and served as an Elder with distinction, supporting the community with a warm smile or a home-cooked meal. She was a proud member of the Order of the Eastern Star and an enthusiastic bridge player, always bringing warmth and laughter to the table.

Anita’s legacy of love, kindness, and quiet strength will live on in the hearts of those who were blessed to share life with her.

The Funeral service will be held at Alabama Presbyterian Church on Saturday, February 15, 2025, at 10AM, interment following at Sibley Cemetery.  Visitation will be held between 5-7 PM on Friday, February 14, 2025, at Kilpatrick Funeral Home in Ruston

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Online condolences may be extended to the family at www.kilpatrickfuneralhomes.com.

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